Thank you for reading my post and your lengthy response.

All relationships are unique. I'm not commenting on anything other than the "still love & in love " business.

I never quite understood it.

I do know, however there are any number of reasons marriages break up and if you think a couple is "normal" chances are--you don't know them well enough.

You've heard the old " there are 3 sides to every story,: yours, mine and the truth!" :)