Men do chores around the house often because he loves their woman., Not because he cares about having the laundry done or the dishwasher unloaded.

The "NO" Was a word forstalling disagreement to, hopefully, allow for thought on the subject.

"We're trying" meant that even if those attempts at showing love are not necessarily appreciated; at least appreciate the attempts that your man makes.

Much like a Christmas present that you don't need--got to appreciate the thought.

I enjoyed reading your article.